Should I bring a wellness gift to my friend?
I’m a 22 year old guy. I have a friend, a 20 year old girl who is in a bad place right now. She has very bad anxiety and is rarely leaving her house. To keep a long story short. I asked her over text over a week ago if she wanted to go to the pumpkin patch with me this year and she ignored the text, never got back to me. I don’t think it’s personal, she does this stuff to me often. I’m thinking about surprising her when I get a day off (very rare I have any free time) and bringing her a pumpkin. Is this good or? I figure I can put the pumpkin in my car and bring it to her.
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There's probably more to this story than you're revealing and she may have very valid reasons to not be answering your texts. But you could probably text her to ask if she wants a pumpkin. If she ignores that then stop texting her. She has the right to not communicate with you if that's her choice.
If she lives with someone, talk to them, and see how she will be if you do come to visit her. I hope she is getting some professional help.
I like the idea of a pumpkin gift, but just the pumpkin might not do anything for her. I suggest a pumpkin carving kit to go with it, along with a pumpkin scented candle. You can get both at the grocery store for under $10 and I think it would lift her spirits, and give her something to do.
i guess its okay. make sure to pick the best one. also she may feel bad if u went without her. so maybe tell her last warning.