ok so my boyfriend is in job corps a state away. this weekend he went with a few buddies to get drunk in a hotel lol anyway earlier before he was drunk we were talking on the phone about my halloween costume I told him that I look like a stripper and I wasn't sure if I was just gonna wear the tight black skirt or the red poofy skirt. so naturally as I'm sure many boyfriends would do in this situation he want me to send pictures. at first I wasn't so sure but hey we've been dating for around 3 years he already sees me naked and it's not like I'd be sending nude shots or in my underwear I mean I'll be wearing the costume in front of people on halloween anyway. I don't normally wear slutty costumes truthfully but this year I thought I'd have fun and spice it up as long as my boyfriend doesn't mind. a little while later (after they've had some drinks) I sent him one of each option to get his opinion. no response for 20 minutes so I called him and I hear serious debate going on amongst him and his buddies... he showed them in order to hold a vote on my costume options and because he wanted to show me off I suppose. Well turns out one guy got really offended that I would be willing to send my boyfriend pictures of myself looking like a whore. He has kids and a daughter and apparently I'm gonna turn bad in the future like his ex who had his son she uses his child support money on herself and her other kids blah blah blah. Talk about taking something harmless and trying really hard to relate it to your own life's problems. I mean I can clearly agree that I look like a whore but I also know that I'm not a whore and my boyfriend knows this as well. I haven't met any of his friends from Job Corps but now they all think less of me lol. I got off the phone and they talked it out I guess and the guy apologized to me on a later phone call and now they're just having a good drunken time. lol I forget why I was posting about this I'm not sure what I wanted to ask I guess what are your thoughts on slutty costumes? do you automatically think bad of the girl or do you think it's just good fun?