I need hope...?
Honestly, I just need to come somewhere to complain. I honestly feel like my body is against me at this point... My fiancé and I have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now. We’ve tried so many different things to get pregnant and nothing seems to want to work. it seems like every time there’s a special day coming up, Aunt Flo decides to make her appearance. Today I am literally 5 days late for my period. I’ve been sick and have been having “symptoms” (typical period symptoms, but they could also all be symptoms of pregnancy) for WELL over a week now, which is odd. Typically, a little “bed time” with my fiancée will kick start my Flo when I’m going to start. But nothing. took a test this morning. Thought I could see a very light line... but I didn’t want to get too excited yet.. not until the line was prominent enough for me to be sure. Then about an hour later I started bleeding. Even after being 5 days late. and of all days, CHRISTMAS. I’ve been praying all morning for a miracle.. can I please get some prayers? Thoughts? Voodoo? Whatever you believe in... I just want this so badly.
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The bleeding could be implantation bleeding. Bleeding is also very common in early pregnancy due to hormones and other reasons. Good luck, I wish you the best! I had zero symptoms until I was 8 weeks pregnant with my twins so if you're not pregnant this time, I bet the time you actually do get pregnant will be when you aren't showing any symptoms at all!
it took me 2 years and 5 years for my sister. please stay cool n clam you will have kids for sure and soon too :)
First off, please know that you are not alone. A lot of women go through this (I did). Please don't lose hope. If you are getting your period, there is always hope that you will be fertile enough to conceive and carry a child. That said, you need to see a specialist if you are not having success after a year or so of trying. Its vital to get checked out...both you and your fiancée can find out if there is anything physically impeding your journey to parenthood. In the short term, you need to see and hear positive stories from people who have been exactly where you are. To that end, there is a vlogger named Channon Rose who has had a very public battle with infertility (she's on youtube), her story is nothing short of amazing. Also, there are others who offer similar stories of hope. Try to relax if you can...that does help calm the mind a bit. take care and Good Luck.
I will tell you, stop thinking about it so much it’s probably causing you to stress. I was trying for a little over 5 years always sad because every month I would get my period and when it was late the test came back negative and it seems like I got my period right after that.. but then I thought to myself if it’s meant to happen it will I prayed about it and surprise I found out in October. I never tried any fertility treatments or anything. My advice to you is you and you partner get checked out and if everything is fine just stop trying so hard and when you pray about it really mean it Good luck 💕